By: Ruth Hunter-Hill
For so many young women, especially those aged 15-19, unwanted teen pregnancy often creates a life-derailing scenario. Everything changes. Being pregnant is daunting to say the least, no matter your age or family situation. It can be a more positive experience for mom and baby, however, if you and the baby’s father are mature and ready to accept the wonderful challenge of raising a child.
Being a parent can be a marvelous experience and is even more so when you’re “ready.” As I am a parent myself, I can say that one is never truly ready for a baby. It’s a curious adventure into the unknown, no matter how many books you read or classes you attend.
Babies are born with a lot of needs that should come directly from their parents. Aside from basic needs like food, shelter, (etc.), they need the security and stability that comes from parents who are as mentally and emotionally prepared as possible. And being pregnant before your body is ready can be risky to the health of both you and the child.
So, wait until you’re ready! I mean really ready. Be prepared.
The most powerful ally for teen pregnancy prevention is education. Know your body and learn what happens to it during pregnancy. Educate yourself – too many unplanned teen pregnancies happen because of poor or inadequate education or even misinformation.
If you are sexually active, please see a doctor regarding the best and most effective birth control for you. It’s best to have parental intervention if you can at this point. Do not have unprotected sex! And I have to say that intentional abstinence is the only guarantee against unplanned pregnancy.
Of course, there are countless resources online to help you arm yourself with a good teen pregnancy prevention education. A good place to start is the Centers for Disease Control’s Vital Signs at https://www.cdc.gov/vitalsigns/larc/index.html, where you’ll find not only tips for pregnancy prevention and resources for education, but also some interesting teen pregnancy statistics.
Having a baby is a glorious event! People are happy and supportive at the prospect of the new life that’s coming into the world. But once you get that baby home is when the work really begins. It’s not a short-term commitment. Are you ready for that?
May12020
